Kim and I have been nicotine free, each, for about a week now. She is doing a little better than I, time wise.
We also just returned from a trip to see my parents in Wisconsin. No one died so I count that as a successful trip. Kim and my parents got along very well, a lot better than I got along with my parents.
Since we went through that stressful situation while quitting and the 24 hour drive to and 19 hour drive back(detour for the better), we should not have to worry about a relapse.
I know I could not have quit without my wife.